Good afternoon guys! Today I want to talk about something that is not fashion or beauty related, but something that every one of us, at a certain point of our life needs to learn to do: self-love.
I’m still discovering how to do this myself, but I’m 18, almost 19, and a few experiences that I lived helped me, more and more, to achieve this goal.
First of all, you need to understand that you can’t already have your life figured out whilst you’re in high school or in college, or attending the university. Life takes its time and you don’t need to rush things, everything is going to happen the way you want it to go, don’t worry about that.
Second thing, learn that you don’t need someone by your side constantly telling you how beautiful and amazing you are, the only person that needs to realize that, is you and just you. Don’t let other people define what you are.
Start doing the things you’re afraid to do when you’re alone, for example: traveling or eating breakfast in a café.
Read. Read how many books you can. Knowledge is never enough.
If you want to lose weight, do it. Don’t be afraid to start.
Learn that the time you spend by yourself is precious as much as the time you spend with your family, friends and people you love. Plus remember that whilst you’re alone you can get to know yourself more and more, and that will help you later if you want to start a relationship, so you’ll know exactly what kind of person you would like to have by your side, and that’s because you know yourself enough to tell that.
If you’re single don’t think that the happiness you’re looking for will show magically when a boy/girl will come and knock at your door, girl you’re not going that way.
In the end, I just want to say to all of you guys who are stressing out with a few problems in their life: you need to relax, sit down and breathe in and out, remember that every problem has its solution, maybe it won’t be easy, but it’s not impossible.
I wrote this post that is completely different from what I usually write just because I felt like I wanted to share these thoughts with you and I hope you enjoyed it as much as always! Xx